The Loneliness of Infertility Infertility is a lonely diagnosis. You are experiencing a health crisis that sets you apart from all of your other conceiving friends. And when you feel bad your mind tends to make comparisons, in order to show you just how bad it is for you. As I've said before, emotions are information, but emotions also love themselves and will do what they can to keep themselves around. During this isolating time you may be eager to hear about other people wh